Feel your feelings.

People often tell you to leave your toxic friends, or to leave those people who don’t value you, aren’t happy with your achievements. Infact, I have advised you in my previous blogs to leave the people who demotivate you in order to grow yourself better.
But, I have a question to ask, what after that? Nobody will tell you how hard it is to be alone. It’s very easy to say better alone than bad company but once you leave that bad company, you often miss the good times you had with them and believe me, it’s completely normal to miss someone you don’t want in your life anymore. It’s not the person you miss, it’s the memories, sometimes i wish, life would have been so much easier if we were not capable of holding memories in our hearts and dwell upon it for the rest of our lives, but then i think maybe if us humans are able to survive with this capability only, to able to miss something & someone whenever we want. I always try to bring the reality and I often quote from the experiences that I have had to make you believe that you are not alone in this game. And this is why, from personal experience I can suggest it is very important to feel your feelings.

Here are few things to do when you feel very upset :
1. Order an extra value large meal from mcdonalds and play any halloween heist episode from brooklyn nine nine. 100000/10 recommended.
2. Vent out to someone, it is really effective depending upon how the other person will take this, so here’s a trick to make your venting easier. Tell the other person if you want, “comfort or solutions?” For example, if you want to vent because you feel lonely, you would want comfort from the other person but in case you feel lost or tired about some work, you might want to listen to a few solutions to calm yourself. Thank me later 🙂
3. It’s a very weird way but makes me feel better somehow, watching the news. There are so many upsetting things happening every day, whenever I watch how people are getting affected by so many harsh things, I instantly feel so grateful and happy to be in a home surrounded by my family, otherwise I don’t. Don’t misunderstand me, I still cry for 74585 days when my mom doesnt let me go shopping with my friends but there are times when I feel grateful too.
4. Click pictures of nature, if you can manage to go to any park, just go, adore some flowers, look how birds are chirping(very clique, just realised), click some pictures, embrace the photographer in you. When you’ll see a few poor kids just pulling each other’s legs(literally) and laughing their lungs out because one of their friends’ pants got pulled out, you will realise that we have made our lives so complicated, it’s not that bad, we can be happy and enjoy little things.
5. READ MY BLOGS ❤


All i wanted to say was that its okay if you feel lonely or sad, just dont give that sadness the power to outgrow on you and you wont realize that it would turn into a lifestyle, don’t go so harsh on yourself, cry your eyes out if you want to, text the person you have been wanting to, its okay, it’s just life, relax & enjoy ❤

From my heart to yours.
Byeeeee.