People often tell you to leave your toxic friends, or to leave those people who don’t value you, aren’t happy with your achievements. Infact, I have advised you in my previous blogs to leave the people who demotivate you in order to grow yourself better.
But, I have a question to ask, what after that? Nobody will tell you how hard it is to be alone. It’s very easy to say better alone than bad company but once you leave that bad company, you often miss the good times you had with them and believe me, it’s completely normal to miss someone you don’t want in your life anymore. It’s not the person you miss, it’s the memories, sometimes i wish, life would have been so much easier if we were not capable of holding memories in our hearts and dwell upon it for the rest of our lives, but then i think maybe if us humans are able to survive with this capability only, to able to miss something & someone whenever we want. I always try to bring the reality and I often quote from the experiences that I have had to make you believe that you are not alone in this game. And this is why, from personal experience I can suggest it is very important to feel your feelings.

Here are few things to do when you feel very upset :
1. Order an extra value large meal from mcdonalds and play any halloween heist episode from brooklyn nine nine. 100000/10 recommended.
2. Vent out to someone, it is really effective depending upon how the other person will take this, so here’s a trick to make your venting easier. Tell the other person if you want, “comfort or solutions?” For example, if you want to vent because you feel lonely, you would want comfort from the other person but in case you feel lost or tired about some work, you might want to listen to a few solutions to calm yourself. Thank me later 🙂
3. It’s a very weird way but makes me feel better somehow, watching the news. There are so many upsetting things happening every day, whenever I watch how people are getting affected by so many harsh things, I instantly feel so grateful and happy to be in a home surrounded by my family, otherwise I don’t. Don’t misunderstand me, I still cry for 74585 days when my mom doesnt let me go shopping with my friends but there are times when I feel grateful too.
4. Click pictures of nature, if you can manage to go to any park, just go, adore some flowers, look how birds are chirping(very clique, just realised), click some pictures, embrace the photographer in you. When you’ll see a few poor kids just pulling each other’s legs(literally) and laughing their lungs out because one of their friends’ pants got pulled out, you will realise that we have made our lives so complicated, it’s not that bad, we can be happy and enjoy little things.
5. READ MY BLOGS ❤


All i wanted to say was that its okay if you feel lonely or sad, just dont give that sadness the power to outgrow on you and you wont realize that it would turn into a lifestyle, don’t go so harsh on yourself, cry your eyes out if you want to, text the person you have been wanting to, its okay, it’s just life, relax & enjoy ❤

From my heart to yours.
Byeeeee.

It definitely feels like the end of the world when your parents shout at you, when they pick your flaws and forget all the achievements you have ever had. All they can see is why you didn’t finish a work they told you to do, or maybe why aren’t you being much productive in your life or simply its that random day when they randomly come to you and choose their favorite topic, your school grades! It definitely hurts a lot when they compare you to your sibling or maybe a cousin because you know it very well how your cousin was drunk last night and you were not because you felt that you’re responsible to take care of the situation and sadly you cannot tell this achievement to your parents and you still have to go through the session of “100 reasons why your sister is better than you”. I will not bring that “its okay they know what’s right for you” crap because i am 18 and i still plan to leave my home and build a new life in malaysia with 500 bucks in my pocket whenever my parents scold me, infact last time i was very serious to leave when i was scolded for not taking a bath, but my cellphone was out of battery and till the time it got charged i was already friends again with my mom so okay!

So, as i was saying, each person has a different way to heal themselves when you’re locked in your room crying a lot because apparently your friends are toxic, parents are shouting, love life is a total unicorn(does not exist) and grades are as low as your self respect when your ex texts you(sorry i wanted to be funny), all i can say is to take this matter a little easy with you and don’t let it bother you that much because trust me, you’re not alone when it comes to fights with family, and even you know the fact that everything gets better every time, it just takes time to heal, afterall, you all are a very cutie family, ofc it’ll get better! Stay blessed y’all.

From my heart to yours,
Byeeeeee.